Comments on: Ten Steps to Love http://editor.nourishedmagazine.com.au/articles/ten-steps-to-love When we got married the registry wouldn't let me put Super Hero as my occupation, they put Home Duties on our marriage certificate instead. But I AM a Super Hero and my Super Hero name is...... The Nourisher. Thu, 04 Dec 2008 01:09:56 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Chrsty http://editor.nourishedmagazine.com.au/articles/ten-steps-to-love#comment-10311 Chrsty Mon, 24 Sep 2007 19:54:52 +0000 http://editor.nourishedmagazine.com.au/articles/ten-steps-to-love#comment-10311 Beautiful beautiful. I shall share this with as many people as I can, starting with myself. What I liked especially (and it was hard to isolate one thing) is the concept of LOVE. Not looking for love but giving love. Not wanting but sharing. This practice has won me lots of friends ( Ok there's all people I've never met but who says you can't hold someone in your heart even through email). It has also made me very independent emotionally. And particularly wary, no that's the wrong word ,sympathetic to people who 'need me love me want me'. It makes me want to run, yet I stay till I can help point the right direction to real love. Oh yes it would be lovely to meet someone who is mouth wateringly handsome, , mindblowingly sexually competent,great company who enjoys mine but doesn't need me in the conventional sence of the word. Well in the absence of that life is still full of wonderful people and small events of orgasmic beauty. I also liked the point about responsibility for the consequences of past actions. Sometimes you can't just run away. Though you'd love to. But doing so would cause more unhappiness in the future. So you stay. But there is a wonderful way of stayiing in a situation called making peace with a situation and its remarkable how it the situation can transmute from something so awful to something almost miraculous, and hate become s love and discord becomes peace ....( well most of the time at least) Peace all Christy Beautiful beautiful. I shall share this with as many people as I can, starting with myself. What I liked especially (and it was hard to isolate one thing) is the concept of LOVE. Not looking for love but giving love. Not wanting but sharing. This practice has won me lots of friends ( Ok there’s all people I’ve never met but who says you can’t hold someone in your heart even through email). It has also made me very independent emotionally. And particularly wary, no that’s the wrong word ,sympathetic to people who ‘need me love me want me’. It makes me want to run, yet I stay till I can help point the right direction to real love. Oh yes it would be lovely to meet someone who is mouth wateringly handsome, , mindblowingly sexually competent,great company who enjoys mine but doesn’t need me in the conventional sence of the word. Well in the absence of that life is still full of wonderful people and small events of orgasmic beauty.

I also liked the point about responsibility for the consequences of past actions. Sometimes you can’t just run away. Though you’d love to. But doing so would cause more unhappiness in the future. So you stay. But there is a wonderful way of stayiing in a situation called making peace with a situation and its remarkable how it the situation can transmute from something so awful to something almost miraculous, and hate become s love and discord becomes peace ….( well most of the time at least)

Peace all
Christy

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